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Adoption is complex both psychologically and sociologically. Adoption is practiced in some cultures and not in others - what motivates some cultures to transfer babies from one family to another?

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How do those in power utilize "Positive Adoption Language" to create a "culture of adoption" in order to influence families to surrender their own children and grandchildren? How did so many people become infertile and how are those in the business of adoption and reproductive technologies exploiting their infertility? Are mothers being used as if they were only a source of babies for adoption, a kind of human breeding-machine? How do family members fare, after being separated for adoption? How do families with open adoptions fare? This adoption blog will address these questions and more.


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    Apr 24, 2005
    Human Life is Precious as Gold for Sale

    Human Life is Precious as Gold for Sale


    Human Life is precious” - that is the message we often hear: “Human Life is precious”. We all know how delightful it is to hear a small child laugh or to look into the trusting eyes of a newborn. And when we look into the eyes of our own son or daughter our joy is even greater. But beyond the intrinsic value of a human being there is an economic value as well. Will there be enough younger workers to keep the social security going? Will there be people to purchase all the manufactured goods and all the “services” and pharmaceuticals? Will there be enough people - with the right skills - to defend our country?

    Human Life is precious . However to many entities human life is precious only because of the income that can be realized from a human life - it is the “price tag” that makes human life precious. This is especially true now that so many people are putting wealth and their own interests first and waiting too long to reproduce. Aging, desperate for a baby - and sometimes quite wealthy - some infertile people will pay any sum in order to get a baby “of their own”. Singles and gays also hope to adopt or otherwise obtain an unrelated child. This is great news for adoption businesses and for those businesses who broker the raw materials needed to create a baby - including human eggs, human sperm and now even frozen human embryos.

    Human life may be considered “precious” but any real respect for human life has gone completely down the drain. Human life is no longer intrinsically precious.. “It” is precious based on “it’s” DNA, looks, health and potential. “It’s” ancestors are usually not even mentioned or if ancestors do happen to be mentioned they are referred to in dehumanizing terms as “genetic parent”, “birthmother” or “birth family health history”. In an attempt to get more raw materials to make babies and more babies for adoption, the very real human life from which the “desired life” springs is demoted to the lowest status possible, the status of a breeder of babies for the wealthy.

    Many “Christian” people insist upon decimating families that are not of the “family unit” type. They rationalize that forced adoption is better than forced abortion - the only two “choices” they are willing to consider for families with single parents. For males, offering only these two “choices” is ideal - because it means that males need not concern themselves with either pregnancy prevention or with taking responsibility for their own child if they are not married to their child’s mother.

    Churches love to promote the phrase “human life is precious” - but unfortunately it seems even for churches, the economic value of human life trumps the intrinsic value of human life. It’s hard to believe that the “experts” are not aware of the harm they cause mothers and their children when they are separated for adoption. For churches, providing “adoption services” is a great “fund-raiser”. “Adoption services” nets them plenty of donations (for this “charitable” work) and of course the church adoption agencies charge fees for “counseling” services designed to get more babies for their real clients, the adopters.

    They say "things have changed" - but with adoption things have not changed except to become more devious and competitive.

    Rather than churches helping the poor, churches remove the healthy, desirable babies of the “poor” (often naïve Christian college students) and sell the babies as indulgences to those whose marriages are not “blessed by God”. In earlier centuries, when people could not reproduce their marriages were annulled. Infertility is not a measure of “goodness”. Infertility may be the result of STDs, overweight, environmental toxins, bad habits like drinking or smoking, drug use or may result from an infection following an abortion. For males, even holding a laptop on their lap can lead to increased body temperature and infertility. Yet, churches seek to “save” these marriages through the sale of human life.

    And because churches have been promoting adoption and selling human life for so long now, how can people comprehend that making even  more “artificial orphans” through adoption or reproductive technologies will cause suffering? It’s not a desirable thing to be an orphan, cut off from family. Do Americans really want to fund “Embryo Adoption Awareness Training” making it so that clinics will be encouraged to make more “spare” embryos in order to offer them for sale? Do United States citizens want “reproductive tourism” to the United States which is known for allowing it’s citizens to be used as incubators and as the source of raw materials to make babies?

    Human life used to be considered more precious than gold but now Human Life - is only precious as gold for sale.



    Posted at 01:54 pm by warriorwoman

    Allytria
    May 16, 2008   07:59 PM PDT
     
    I was adopted. My adopted mother is my True Mother. I had no divided loyalties. I have met my birthmother...and she said she missed me but didn't regret what she did. Adoption is a good option for those that have no other way out with an unwanted child.
    Cassie
    March 24, 2008   04:51 AM PDT
     
    This is SO insulting to people who simply know they cannot provide for their child, and choose to give the gift of life to a loving family who does have the resources but not the abilities to have their own... Rather than ABORTION. This is also insanely insulting to loving people who want to experience having a child, but cannot for natural reasons. If someone cannot breed, it is not at fault of their own, but faulty genetics refusing to be passed on. This does not make an individual faulty, by any means. It is only responsible that they recognize this, and provide a loving home for a child who would not have one otherwise.

    You, writer, go to hell.
    So Sad
    July 6, 2006   09:21 PM PDT
     
    What an ignorant and misinformed article. Sad that it's out there as information and for naïve people to agree with.
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    Name
    May 9, 2005   11:30 AM PDT
     
    Im willing to bet the ones who find it amusing are the ones who also have adopted. Proves what sickies they really are
    Sandy
    May 8, 2005   10:53 AM PDT
     
    Apparently you struck a nerve here, Laurie. I read the article, I found it enlightening, and I see nothing humorous in a woman's grief. I am sure that some Nazi
    's found the Jewish suffering in the camps a riot, too. And, the serial killers who sharpen their teeth on little puppies and kittens must be rolling in the aisles.....
    But anyway ...
    May 5, 2005   09:10 PM PDT
     
    hey, it's been fun.

    Seriously though, think about it. Consider why so few people actually respond to your diatribes when you foam them onto the web. There's a reason for it, and a lot of it has to do with presentation (that is, presentation of a rabid dog). I guess the screaming is just really loud venting. But honestly, scraeaming until the cows come home is never going to change the fact that *YOU* ... *YOU* ... handed away your child. Gotta hurt, I guess, but, hey, them's the breaks. LOL

    Sorry, finding too much amusement I guess. But yeah, you really need to calm down if you want any significant portion of society to ever, ever take you seriously.
    LMAO!!!!!!
    May 5, 2005   09:03 PM PDT
     
    "Understand" what, pray tell? That you're so busy foaming at the mouth that you don't even see the world's reaction to you?

    Ok, seriously Laurie ... have you ever stopped to wonder why so very few people ever respond to you? Why your rantings usually go with few if any replies? It's because you're so far around the bend, you've lost all sense of sanity, composure, balance, and rationality. If you don't believe me, just look at the rarity of the responses you get. First step when encountering a rabid dog is to quietly step back without any sudden movements. That's what most people do ... step back quietly away from their keyboards. Good heavens, the proof is found just about anywhere you post.

    And if the ranting and raving isn't funny enough in a macabre sort of way, or the fact that you'll be most probably be screaming like this and driving people away for the rest of your life, the kicker is that at the heart of it, you brought your hysteria onto yourself from the beginning. You're the one that handed the child over. Duh. Or should that be D'oh! LOL
    Name
    May 1, 2005   07:19 PM PDT
     
    Happy to be able to entertain you...sorry you understand...

    Laurie
    obsessed w/ Christians, areya?
    May 1, 2005   06:49 PM PDT
     
    Hey, will you drop Lauri a message for me? ;-) Tell her we thank her for the entertainment. Quite possibly the funniest nutjob on the planet. She earns more laughs than nods. I do hope she realizes that. Laughter is, after all, a good thing. :-D
    NameKaren
    April 30, 2005   01:34 PM PDT
     
    This is "must" reading for all of those who are engaged in the practice of "Christian' adoption.
     

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